Many of us do not know the real meaning of self love. We relate generally self love with the satisfied feelings that caused by fulfillment of personal wants and needs. Self love is often connoted as an egoism since people presume it affects only on oneself.
More than that we can assume self love as a learning process to love ourselves, people around us and even other creatures in the world.
The process begins with the essential of self love which is accepting ourselves unconditionally. It is easier to love ourselves if we can accept it either in good or bad condition. We have to realize that everyone is unique and God has purpose creating us in the world. We always have to thank God for all things we have.
Taking very good care of ourselves is the next step of the process. Why do not we choose good lifestyle and maintain our beloved body, soul and mind so that they stay healthy and in good condition? Keeping away from things that can harm our body such as drugs, alcohol and cigarette are parts of good lifestyle. And don’t forget to nourish our soul and mind by always thinking positive and see everything in good point of view. Not only make our soul and mind comfort, it can also enrich our personal lives.
The other part of ourselves that needs to be our concern is dignity. We surely never want anyone with any reason condescends us and does not respect our dignity. Having good manner and attitude and obeying norms in society make someone is always more respected than being rich and famous. And that is what we should do. Anyway it reduces possibility of anyone who wants to hurt us physically or mentally.
And there are more things we can do in order to love ourselves. As long as we live, we have to keep on loving ourselves and improving the quality of our self love. The more we can accept, love and honor ourselves the more we will be able to understand and love other people. People will see our radiating self love. Sincerely they will accept us and love we give. They will return our love even more.
It is not wrong to love ourselves as long as it does not deprive other people. On the contrary self love makes you and people around you happy.
Why don’t we begin to love ourselves first before we love others?
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